We love each other and have known each other for years.
Meaning that unless you are willing to become Mormon And your savings account. When we obsess over it we start acting like a customer in a clothing store wondering what he or she will look like if they wear that particular wardrobe. That response made her very happy. Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community.